Tag: Estrangement


An inquiry into the psychology of estrangement—the active, often painful severance of a primary bond. While frequently initiated as a last resort for survival, the “cutoff” creates a profound Ambiguous Loss—a grief without closure. We examine the mechanics of family cutoffs, the secondary trauma of “living ghosts,” and the long-term psychological risks severance. We trace the complexity of ancestral scripts and the path toward true sovereignty—whether through reconciliation or a more resilient form of distance.


  • Suffering the Opposites

    Suffering the Opposites

    I have come to believe that the fiercer a person’s condemnation of “the other side,” the more likely he is blind to his own shadow—the very traits he condemns in others are lying dormant within himself.

  • True Blood

    True Blood

    Being told you’re somehow misshapen temperamentally can be a terrible injustice and heartache to a child. It’s also hurtful when we give the adults in our lives such messages of unacceptability.